I know it looks bad, I know it feels bad.
But is isn’t as bad as it feels. I know it seems like there is no way out but
that is not true at all. There are many occasions when just because you cannot
see what’s out there, doesn’t mean there is not a solution out there. I want to
talk with you and I want to be on your side. And I want to empathise with you but
I don’t want to keep this story of what’s wrong active in your life. Because I
know for sure it’s not good for you. The most important thing I want to say to
you is; you have not done anything wrong. So you don’t need me to choose sides
with you against anybody because I don’t think you have done anything wrong to
begin with. You are just sorting this out and finding your way. I have a sense
of the power of who you are. And I have always like of so much that I see in
you. The thing that I can feel in the strongest way is that the circumstances
that you are living in are making you ask big time questions. And I believe
that every person who has overcome anything and found themselves eventually in
a much better place has been standing right where you are. And I just want to
say there is nothing wrong with where you are standing as far as I am concerned
except that you feel so bad while you are standing there. And that’s the part that
I would like to help with. I so want you to feel better. I so want life to
treat you the way you deserve to be treated. But you are like so many of us.
You have got some habits going on that are preventing of what you want of
coming into your experience. And so little by little I am going to show you how
you can focus differently and live differently. But this is not the right time
to make that happen because there is a momentum going that has to sort of peter
out. And it will peter out if you can stop talking about it and thinking about
it which pretty much means; you need a nap. You need some way of distracting
yourself from what’s going on here because your mind is so active, you have
such a brilliant mind. And you are fixating on things you don’t want. And the
more you fixate on the things you don’t want the more you attract the things
you don’t want so they keep proving to you what you think. If you can just find
some rest to put off the negative things you don’t want, things would get
better for you right away. I know there are periods of your life that you
remember that were better then what’s going on right now. And I want you to
know, if believe this with everything that I am, that you don’t have to go back
to the beginning of something and start over because where you are is in a
perfect place to begin again. But you can’t begin again by regurgitating by
everything that’s wrong. You have got to take a nap, you have to start again
and you have got to reach for some thought that feels better to you. And it is
my promise to you that day by day by day you will feel to start better. If you
just stop talking about what’s gone wrong for just a little while, your
negative energy will clear, and other things you want will come into your
life.
Once you have giving this a little bit of
time and you are waking up and just sensing how you feel recognising that you
do feel better you are going to feel clarity in your mind that’s going to feel
like something you remember from before. You are starting to feel clear. You
are starting to feel clear minded. I felt less like I wanted to explain
anything to anybody then would then make it less clear.
You are the creator of your own reality.
Words of Abraham Hicks - Phoenix AZ seminar 01-02-2014